I don't think he should blame himself. And I don't think you should blame yourself. I don't think one person is to blame for this. You all three made choices and however we all wound up here is... It's not one person's fault. Or two people. I don't know. I don't think playing the blame game is going to help anyone. So I wish you wouldn't do it, and I wish Bart wouldn't do it. Or any of us.
::pauses, and softly:: I wasn't defending Bart, if that's how it came across. I was just saying that... I don't know. I don't know what I'm saying. ::sighs:: Maybe you're right.
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Date: 2009-06-09 05:17 am (UTC)::quiet for a moment::
I don't think he should blame himself. And I don't think you should blame yourself. I don't think one person is to blame for this. You all three made choices and however we all wound up here is... It's not one person's fault. Or two people. I don't know. I don't think playing the blame game is going to help anyone. So I wish you wouldn't do it, and I wish Bart wouldn't do it. Or any of us.
::pauses, and softly:: I wasn't defending Bart, if that's how it came across. I was just saying that... I don't know. I don't know what I'm saying. ::sighs:: Maybe you're right.